Most entrepreneurs don’t fail because they lack talent or resources. They fail because they lack clarity. Without purpose, every decision feels like guesswork, and every day fills with busyness that doesn’t move the needle forward.
Purpose acts as your North Star—a filter for opportunities, a driver of resilience, and a guide when uncertainty hits. In fact, research from Harvard Business Review found that professionals who feel a strong sense of purpose are 64% more fulfilled in their work and significantly more likely to achieve their long-term goals.
The question is: how do you actually define your purpose in a way that sticks?
Here are 7 practical steps—drawn from real mastermind exercises—that will help you not only define your purpose but refine it into something you can live every single day.
This framework came straight out of a live Elite League Mastermind session where members worked together to define and refine their purpose. What you’ll read below is a distillation of the exact exercises, reflections, and breakthroughs that happened in the room.
👉 If you want to see the full replay of that mastermind, check out the session recap below:
1. Revisit Peak Moments
Your best clues often come from your own story. Think about a peak moment in your life—a time when you felt proud, alive, and deeply aligned with who you are.
For example:
- Maybe it was the day you landed your first client against all odds.
- Or the moment you stood on stage and realized your words truly inspired others.
- Or even a personal milestone, like leading your family through a tough season.
Ask yourself:
- What values were present in that moment?
- What strengths did I use?
- What did that moment mean to me—and why?
📝 Challenge: Write down 2–3 peak moments in your life. Underline the values that show up consistently (e.g., leadership, service, resilience). Those values are the DNA of your purpose.
Greg Carlson
2. Audit Your Energy
Purpose is not just about what you should do—it’s about what fuels you. If you ignore your natural energy sources, burnout becomes inevitable.
Ask yourself:
- What gives me energy?
- What drains me?
- What do I do that makes me lose track of time?
Example: One mastermind member realized that bringing people together for fun, unfiltered experiences was a huge source of energy. That insight reframed his leadership style—he wasn’t just a “business leader,” he was a community catalyst.
📝 Challenge: List 3 activities that energize you and 3 that drain you. Then ask: How can I do more of the first, and delegate or minimize the second?
3. Craft a Purpose Statement
Now it’s time to put words to your purpose. Use this simple formula:
“I use my [strength] to create [outcome] for [people/causes] so that [impact].”
Example:
- “I use my ability to simplify complex ideas to help entrepreneurs build systems, so they gain freedom instead of overwhelm.”
- “I use my persistence to break through barriers, so I can guide others to reach their own untapped potential.”
Notice how each statement is clear, specific, and tied to an impact beyond the self.
📝 Challenge: Draft 2–3 versions of your purpose statement using the formula. Say them out loud. Which one feels most true?
Greg Carlson
4. Cut the Fluff
Many people overcomplicate purpose with lofty words that don’t land. The reality? If you can’t explain it in 15 seconds, you don’t fully own it yet.
As one mastermind participant said:
“I realized my purpose statement was full of fluff. Refining it wasn’t about making it grander—it was about making it clearer.”
Think of it as your elevator pitch for life.
📝 Challenge: Share your draft purpose statement with a trusted friend. Ask them: “What’s the most powerful word or phrase in this?” Then edit ruthlessly until only the essentials remain.
5. Make It Visible
Purpose fades if it stays hidden in a notebook. Bring it into your environment. Print it, frame it, set it as your phone wallpaper—whatever keeps it in front of you daily.
One entrepreneur from the mastermind printed his on a poster-sized board and hung it by his front door:
“I read it every morning before I leave the house. It’s not just a mantra—it’s a filter for every choice I make that day.”
📝 Challenge: Print your purpose statement. Put it somewhere you’ll see it every day.
6. Align Your Calendar
Here’s the truth: if your purpose doesn’t show up in your schedule, it’s just a wish.
Look at your calendar this week:
- Does it reflect your purpose?
- Are you making time for the work that matters most?
- Or is it filled with distractions and obligations that pull you off course?
As one mastermind member put it:
“Before, my calendar felt like busy work. Now, every meeting has meaning because it ties back to my mission.”
📝 Challenge: Block 2 hours this week for a “purpose session.” Use it to work exclusively on something tied directly to your purpose. No email. No distractions.
Greg Carlson
7. Stay Accountable
Purpose is a lifelong refinement process. You’ll drift, get distracted, and lose clarity unless you build accountability.
That’s why mastermind groups work so well—they create a rhythm of check-ins, reflection, and course correction.
Practical ways to stay accountable:
- Find an accountability partner who asks about your weekly wins.
- Share your progress in a mastermind or small group.
- Track your “purpose KPIs”—daily habits that align with your mission.
📝 Challenge: Text one trusted friend or peer every day for the next week with the same question: “How did you win today?” Build momentum together.
Final Thoughts
Purpose isn’t found—it’s built. Step by step. Statement by statement. Action by action.
By revisiting your peak moments, auditing your energy, crafting a clear statement, cutting the fluff, making it visible, aligning your time, and staying accountable—you don’t just define your purpose, you live it.
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